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Military Wedding Decor – Address Your Military Wedding Invitations Correctly

Addressing a wedding invitation in accordance with proper military code and your chosen military wedding decor is a headache for military personnel. If you’re non-military you may not even know what questions you should be asking, especially when it comes to addressing your military wedding decor invitations with the very formal titles of your military guests.

If you can create a civilian wedding invitation that suits your wedding decor choices, then you can create a military wedding invitation. The only difference comes in when you are addressing the invitation and have to use formal titles.

Absolutely everyone’s rank and service is included. For example, the bride’s and groom’s ranks and services are listed as are the ranks and services of each of their parent’s. In the past, many military brides have not used their titles on their invitations, but there is no reason to continue this tradition. Claim your title! You’ve earned it!

If the bride and groom are senior officers, their titles are written before their names. Their branch or service are listed on the line below their names. For example:
Colonel Emily Alexandria Johnson
United States Marine Corps

If you and your bride or groom are junior or company-grade officers, then list your titles under your names and follow it up with your branch of service. For example:
Thomas Andrew Odyssey
Second Lieutenant, United States Air Force

Remember that in the Army, First and Second Lieutenants use just Lieutenant. In the Marines and the Air Force, First and Second are used.


For personnel who are enlisted, whether they are the bride, groom, parents of the bride or groom, members of the wedding party, or guests, leave out the rank. Write out the name on one line and the branch of service beneath. Never use Miss, Mrs., or Mr. when referring to an officer who is on active duty. For example:
Angela Reya Rodriguez
United States Army

If any of the parents of the bride or groom, members of the wedding party, or guests are retired military (especially if they possess the rank of Commander or Lieutenant Colonel), they still use their military titles though they are civilians so be sure to include them on your invitations. Note that they are retired if the invitation is addressed solely to them. For example:
Commander Ramira Andavi
United States Army, Retired

However! If the invitation is addressed to retired military and their spouse, then the branch of service in which they served is not mentioned underneath their name. For example:
Commander and Mr. Ramira Andavi
are cordially invited to…

One more thing: never abbreviate military titles. No Lt. for Lieutenant. Write it out, especially on the outer envelope. On the inner envelope, you are allowed a slight abbreviation of the names, but not the military title. For example, Major and Mrs. Lawson David Crisp on the outer envelope can become Major and Mrs. Crisp on the inner envelope.

Should you happen to have guests who are married and possess the same rank in the same branch of the service, address the envelope like this example:
Majors Hector and Anna Guara or The Majors Guara

Should you invite guests who are married but possess different services or ranks and the woman has kept her maiden name, follow this example:
Lieutenant Anna Rodriguez
Major Hector Guara or
Lieutenant Rodriguez and Major Guara

Keep this article as a reference as you are addressing your invitations according to military protocol as well as your military wedding decor.


About the Author

Valeria Vegas has a Masters degree in Writing and regularly writes for a local newspaper.  She also teaches writing workshops in San Francisco and has taught high school English.  As a freelance job, she corrects essays for the SAT and ACT through Pearson scoring as well as write copy for websites.  She is the Associate Editor of a literary magazine, edit manuscripts for Behler publications, and works for authors independently.  One of her stories was named Notable Story of 2004 by Million Writers. She is a new a contributor to http://www.wedding-decoration-idea.com.
 


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